Tense Pelvic Floor—When It’s Hard to Release the Tension

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Does your pelvic floor feel constantly tense, sore, or restless? The pelvic floor needs to be able to both contract and relax. When it’s overactive or has trouble relaxing, this can manifest as pain, pressure, discomfort, or a constant sensation that the area is tense.

This applies to both men and women. The discomfort can be felt in the perineum, lower abdomen, around the rectum, at the base of the penis, or in the vagina, and many people also notice changes in urination or sexual function.

A tense pelvic floor cannot be diagnosed based on a feeling of tightness alone. That’s why, at MS Insight in Copenhagen, I start by investigating what might be causing your specific symptoms.

At MS Insight, you’ll receive:

  • A comprehensive assessment of pain, urination, bowel function, and sexual function.
  • A clinical examination of the pelvic floor’s ability to both contract and relax.
  • An ultrasound scan for selected patients when it aids in the assessment.
  • A plan involving relaxation, monitoring, and exercise—no more Kegel exercises for everyone.
  • Manual therapy and HumanTecar as a supplement when tissue is part of the problem.
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Michael Strøm

International speaker and expert in shockwave and EMTT treatments for men's sexual health.

In this article
  1. What symptoms might be associated with a strained pelvic floor?
  2. Tense Pelvic Floor in Men
  3. Tense pelvic floor muscles in women
  4. Strength Is Not the Same as Control
  5. How do I assess pelvic floor function?
  6. Treatment Focused on Function
  7. The Connection Between CPPS and Pudendal Nerve-Related Symptoms
  8. When the pelvic floor is too tense—and there is also incontinence
  9. When should you see a doctor?

What symptoms might be associated with a strained pelvic floor?

Some people describe a constant tightness or tenderness in the pelvis. Others experience pain when sitting for long periods, after physical activity, or during sexual intercourse or orgasm. Typical symptoms may include:

  • pain or pressure in the perineum, lower abdomen, or around the rectum
  • frequent urination or a sudden urge to urinate
  • difficulty emptying the bladder or a feeling of being unable to relax while urinating
  • pain during sexual intercourse—in women, often upon penetration; in men, often during or after ejaculation
  • pain when sitting for long periods
  • constipation or difficulty emptying the bowels

The symptoms are not specific to a tight pelvic floor. Acute infection, prostate disease, gynecological and urological conditions, neurological problems, and other conditions should be considered when the medical history raises suspicion.

Tense Pelvic Floor in Men

In men, a hypertonic pelvic floor is often seen in conjunction with pain in the perineum, at the base of the penis, or in the testicles, burning during urination, and discomfort after ejaculation. Many men are told they have prostatitis, even though there is no infection. In these cases, the pelvic floor may play a significant role in the condition. Read more about CPPS and prostatitis, as well as pelvic pain.

Tense pelvic floor muscles in women

In women, a tight pelvic floor can cause pain during intercourse or a gynecological exam, a burning sensation in the lower abdomen, pain around the tailbone, and urinary problems. This condition can develop after childbirth, surgery, infections, or prolonged periods of pain, but it can also develop without a clear cause. Read more about incontinence in women.

Strength Is Not the Same as Control

The pelvic floor may be weak, have reduced endurance, work in an uncoordinated manner, or be overactive. Some people experience several of these issues at the same time. Therefore, it doesn’t make sense to automatically recommend more Kegel exercises to everyone with pelvic-related symptoms.

If the main problem is an inability to relax, targeted relaxation techniques, breathing exercises, movement, and control training may be more appropriate than additional strength training. If, on the other hand, there is clear weakness, a different plan may be the right one.

How do I assess pelvic floor function?

I ask about pain patterns, urination, bowel function, previous surgeries and births, activity level, sexual function, and any stressors or strain factors. A clinical examination and assessment of relevant movements help clarify the possible causes of the symptoms.

In selected patients, an ultrasound scan can help assess relevant structures or movements. However, a finding or image alone cannot serve as proof of the cause of pain. When there are signs of a condition that requires further evaluation, I recommend contacting the appropriate physician or specialist.

Treatment Focused on Function

Treatment may include guidance, adjustments to activity levels, relaxation, graded activity, and targeted exercises. If the examination reveals a significant muscular or tissue component, manual therapy and selected technologies may be incorporated as supplements.

Among other things, I use HumanTecar to work on the surrounding muscles and soft tissues, but it is not a standard treatment for pelvic pain or a tight pelvic floor. The Pelvic Chair is also not automatically a good first choice for severe tension, because it primarily focuses on strength training and muscle activation. I tailor the treatment to the specific functional issue.

In cases of CPPS and other chronic pelvic pain conditions, muscles, the nervous system, and physical strain can all influence one another. Pelvic floor activity is therefore only one of the factors I evaluate. When dealing with symptoms that may be pudendal nerve-related, it’s especially important to avoid oversimplifying the issue by attributing all pain to tight tissue.

The goal is a plan with clear functional objectives and ongoing follow-up—and collaboration with other healthcare professionals when necessary. Read more about connective tissue and fascia around the pelvis.

When the pelvic floor is too tense—and there is also incontinence

Incontinence isn’t always caused by a weak pelvic floor. For some people, tension and an inability to control bladder activity are what cause problems with holding urine or emptying the bladder. That’s why I need to distinguish between a pelvic floor that needs strength training and one that first needs to learn to relax. Read more about incontinence.

When should you see a doctor?

If you have a fever, blood in your urine, new severe pain, acute inability to urinate, unexplained weight loss, or new neurological deficits, you should seek immediate medical evaluation. Sudden numbness in the groin area or loss of bladder or bowel control requires urgent evaluation.

You don’t need to diagnose pelvic floor issues yourself

Are you experiencing pain, pressure, or discomfort in your pelvis that won’t go away?

Describe your symptoms during a no-obligation consultation, and I’ll assess whether a specialized pelvic treatment program at MS Insight is right for you.

I’ll start with an examination—not with a standard package.

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Frequently Asked Questions About a Tight Pelvic Floor

Can a hypertonic pelvic floor also be weak?

Yes. High resting tone does not rule out impaired coordination or strength. Therefore, function and symptoms must be assessed together.

Are more Kegel exercises always a good idea?

No. For some conditions, the pelvic floor actually needs to learn to relax and coordinate its activity.

Can men have a tight pelvic floor?

Yes. In men, this is often seen in conjunction with pain in the perineum, at the base of the penis, or after ejaculation—and it is frequently mistaken for prostatitis.

Can an overactive pelvic floor cause pain during intercourse?

Yes. Both men and women can experience pain during intercourse or orgasm when the pelvic floor has difficulty relaxing.

Can TECAR or shockwave therapy be used on their own?

They should not be presented as a general solution. These technologies are selected as a supplement to a professional assessment and a plan for function and activity.

How do you relax the pelvic floor?

Often through a combination of breathing techniques, conscious relaxation, movement, and control exercises. The specific exercises recommended depend on the results of the evaluation.